FAQ

You Ask & We Answer!

1. What is Inst(Gay)tor?

​We are a gay owned and operated matchmaking agency that specializes in providing Coaching, Matchmaking and Singles Event’s specifically to the gay community.​

2. Why the name “Insti(Gay)tor”?

​In life, we all have obstacles that we need to overcome in order to become successful. Most of those obstacles can be overcome simply by changing the way that you think. In life coaching, we call this “Instigating a change”. We chose to emphasize the “Gay” in Insti(Gay)tor because the majority of our clients are struggling with issues that are specific to gay dating.

3. What makes you different from other Matchmaking Agencies?

​Insti(Gay)tor is different because we are the ONLY gay owned and operated matchmaking/coaching agency in Chicago that caters specifically to the gay community. Not only have we studied the playing field, we have lived it.

We cater our services to suit your needs to ensure that we provide you with quality matches!

4. Why are there targeted age groups listed on some of the events?

​At Insti(Gay)tor, we strive to provide you with the best services possible. Most of our events are catered to the needs of current clients who have enlisted our team to find them a match. In order to maximize the opportunity, we try to ensure that all attendees are compatible on some level.​

​For instance, speed dating events tend to result in matches when participants share similar “must haves” and interests. Therefore, we will target and recruit participants based on our current members needs and provide a quality selection rather than pair groups of people who have nothing in common. Our number one goal is to find our clients matches and ensure that everyone enjoys the experience in the process.

5. Can Insti(Gay)tor plan an event based on my needs?

​ABSOLUTELY! Insti(Gay)tor sponsors and hosts a minimum of two events per month. We do our best to ensure that our event focus reflect our diverse group of clients. Please feel free to make suggestions to our team. If you are interested in having Insti(Gay)tor plan an event and target participants on your behalf, please contact us via the “Contact Us” page.​​

What Clients Say…

“Cameron recruited me for a singles mixer for one of his clients. I had never done anything like that before so I was extremely nervous, but Cam and his team made me feel very comfortable. I was shocked to find out that his client chose me as his match and wanted to take me out. We are still dating and all I can say is wow. Thanks Cameron!”  -  Nate, Evanston, IL

What Clients Say…

"The difference between Cameron and other matchmaker’s, I didn’t feel like he was trying to sell me anything! The consultation felt like I was talking to an old friend who really wanted to see me happy. He didn’t promise anything that he couldn’t deliver. He introduced me to a couple of guys in my area and I have been dating on a consistent basis. I can’t wait to see what he has in store for me next." – Ron, Hoboken, NJ

What Clients Say…

"I knew what I wanted, but I didn’t know how to go about getting it. I had been out of practice for a while and I was getting tired of going on bad dates. Cameron took the time to get to know me and introduced me to 3 amazing guys from the service, my current boyfriend included. We are on month 3 of our relationship and things are still going strong." – Ricardo, Dallas, TX

What Clients Say…

"I met the perfect guy through Cameron at Insti(Gay)tor. I never would have believed that a matchmaker would have found my future mate. He treats me like I'm the only guy on earth. My dreams of being happy have finally come true! I am recommending Insti(Gay)tor to my guy friends who are looking for better ways to date." - Christian, Hoboken, NJ

What Clients Say…

"Cameron is a bad ass! He’s like a cross between Hitch and Olivia Pope except he’s real. He helped me face some very tough situations and get over many of my hang-ups. I consider him to be a trusted advisor when it comes to the gay dating game." - Sergio, NYC​​​

What Clients Say…

"I started working with Cameron and he really took the time to understand my needs. He set me up on a few dates and I was pleasantly surprised with the men he had scouted for me. I have been partnered with one of the guys for the past year and a half and I think he’s the one." - Jason, NYC

What Clients Say…

"Things are awesome! After signing up and working with Cameron I approached a special someone and 3 months later we're in a relationship. I am so happy and owe it all to you guys. Keep up the good work!" - Patrick , Schaumburg, IL

What Clients Say…

"I have seen a huge transformation in my dating in general. I have more confidence to start the first approach. I have learned invaluable techniques for handling a variety of situations. You guys are the best!" - Marc, Chicago, IL

What Clients Say…

"Insti(Gay)tor has definitely exceeded my expectations. It is the best matchmaking service I have enjoyed in a long time. I’ve taken memberships with other prominent dating services, but this is by far my best." - Jeremy , NYC​

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