A few weeks ago, I was able to partner up with Dr. Brian Rzepczynski and discuss why many gay men dislike using condoms. Despite reports that gay men are reporting fewer sexual partners, condom usage still seems to be on the decline and we can’t help but to wonder why? So what happens when The… Continue Reading
![Ask An Expert: I Want To Get Married… He Doesn’t [VIDEO]](http://instigaytor.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/I-WANT-TO-GET-MARRIED-300x180.jpg)
Check out this episode of YourTango.com’s “Ask An Expert”. With the recent wins in Delaware and Minnesota, marriage has become a real option for many gay couples. So what happens when one member of the relationship want to get married and the other doesn’t? In this episode, J. Cameron Gantt offers some advice on discussing your… Continue Reading
Do you find it hard to keep a man? You go on dates with guys who seem interested in you, only to have them disappear a few dates in? I hate to say it but you might be a little too clingy when it comes to relationships. I don’t care how smart, cute or nice a… Continue Reading
I’m a big fan of sex, but experience has taught me that sometimes sex can complicate things, especially when it comes to dating. As much as I advise my bachelors against it, I understand that it’s going to happen and sometimes you just need to deal with it and move on. This week one of… Continue Reading
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Check out this episode of YourTango.com’s “Ask An Expert”. Thinking about getting back with your Ex? There’s a few things you may want to consider before making your move. In this episode, J. Cameron Gantt offers some advice to help you assess the situation and make a decision to either get back together or move on.… Continue Reading
Dating a guy who sends mixed messages is not only counter-productive, but it’s also frustrating, confusing and severely annoying. Unfortunately, it’s a part of the dating game and it’s something all of us have dealt with at one point or another. So when it happens, how do you deal with it? This week, one of… Continue Reading
![Ask An Expert: My Partner Doesn’t Like When I Watch Porn [VIDEO]](http://instigaytor.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/PartnerHates-Porn-300x180.jpg)
Check out this episode of YourTango.com’s “Ask An Expert”. Most men like porn, but what happens when you get into a relationship and your partner doesn’t like the fact that you enjoy watching it? In this episode, Insti(Gay)tor’s J. Cameron Gantt gives a viewer tips on how watching porn can be used as a tool to… Continue Reading
Original Article Written For MUSED Magazine Online This week our reader asks: “I’ve been with my boyfriend for about two years. We’ve been living together for one year, but in the beginning everything was good. We used to laugh and joke with each other, go out and the sex was ridiculous. I don’t know what… Continue Reading
Original Article Written For DatingAdvice.com Here we are again. Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and you might be asking yourself why you are spending another Valentine’s Day alone. You tell yourself it’s not a big deal and it’s just a normal day like any other, but a slight feeling of awkwardness starts to… Continue Reading
Original Article Written For MUSED Magazine Online This week our reader asks: Dear Insti(Gay)tor, What is the deal with online dating? I use it on occasions, but I’ve never really get anywhere with it. I participated in the #Jackdfish chat on Twitter and I was hoping to learn a little more information on how to… Continue Reading